Our last day in India began with our typical morning gathering; like every other morning we all came together to share our thoughts and have a short devotion led by Emma. (as in past trips, this truly has been a beautiful way for us to start our day) I started by asking my fellow travelers to give me their high and low point of the trip in a nutshell... Based on their responses, I believe I can sincerely say "mission accomplished"!! The time spent interacting with our JJM family, being with the hostel children, plus reading and doing art projects with the kids in Marshall School were all on the high point list; we came here to build relationships and I dare say we are all leaving with more love woven into our hearts!! The low points varied amongst the travelers, but nothing overshadowed the experience we had here.
Since our flight wasn't scheduled to leave until later that evening, our plan was to go back to the hostel and spend the afternoon with our JJM family and the hostel kids. We made a slight detour on our way there to pop in on a "Puberty Celebration"; yep, that's right, they celebrate a girl's "coming of age" with great fanfare here. Novahu and Manjula told me that families begin saving for this event as soon as they give birth to a daughter because it is such a grand occasion; after that, they save for her dowry. I can certainly believe that after what I saw... This was the sign outside her village welcoming the whole community to the event. This particular girl goes to the Marshall School, hence the reason we were invited to attend.
The family was incredibly grateful that we accepted their invitation to stop by...
You can see by the size of the pots below that they are preparing to feed quite a large crowd; Novahu said that there are about 1,000 people in this village and they would all be invited.
Now onto the hostel for lunch and quality time. Although we had a delightful afternoon, there certainly was this dark cloud lurking over us all, as we knew what lied ahead.
It never ceases to amaze me how emotionally attached you can get to someone in such a short amount of time, like with the new little shine brites we just met this trip; they stole our hearts with their smiles and joyfulness! 😍And then there are the children who we have grown to love over the past several years...it's heart wrenching to think this is their final year in the hostel, then off into the world...will we ever see them again?? 😢 One girl in particular, Vijaya, has been there since our first trip over; it's been our privilege to watch her grow into a smart amazing young woman through the years...good gore, this is hard!! Pradeep, one young boy who I've gotten to know, along with his sister Deepika, have been with us for quite sometime now...when I told him I hoped he knew how much I loved him, he replied "I know auntie, I really do know, and I love you too".
Then came that dreaded time for us to say goodbye...it never gets any easier!! I'm sitting here crying now just thinking about how emotional that time is for both sides. As their tiny arms wrap around us with such strength, clinging on to you until you have to release them to move on to the next child, is a feeling like no other that I can describe. The only relief I can get is knowing that they are in good hands, and that the people who care for them on a daily basis love them like their own. What a gift the Joyful Journeys Hostel is to these children who come from lives filled with such brokenness and heartache. May God grant us all comfort and bring peace to our hearts as we move back into our daily routines, clinging to the memories and friendships we have made.
As I shared in one of my first posts, I had been reading the book Barnyard Dance to the kids as they joyfully danced with my fellow travelers...as we waved farewell, I changed the words at the end of the story to...With a OINK and a MOO and a QUACK QUACK QUACK, we're heading back to America buuuut WE'LL BE BACK!!!
Then it was time to say our "see ya laters" to our Indian family that has cared for us with such love and kindness throughout our trip; we were truly blessed by their hospitality, and will definitely miss them all as well...especially Rajini's tea!! 😉
So what do you do when your heart aches with the pains of change...eat chocolate cake, of course!!
After approximately 36 hours of traveling, we made it back home!!
We are weary, but filled with gratitude for our Joyful Journey, and we are happy to be back, but forever changed!
February 16th is India Sunday at Immanuel Church; join us at the 9:00am and/or 10:30am Worship Services as we share our experiences and shed light on how Joyful Journeys Ministries are impacting the village of Madhavapatnam and beyond. All are welcome! 💖
Watch for another post, as I still have more to say (I know, go figure), but for now it's time to rest!
Namaste'
~Jenny
Since our flight wasn't scheduled to leave until later that evening, our plan was to go back to the hostel and spend the afternoon with our JJM family and the hostel kids. We made a slight detour on our way there to pop in on a "Puberty Celebration"; yep, that's right, they celebrate a girl's "coming of age" with great fanfare here. Novahu and Manjula told me that families begin saving for this event as soon as they give birth to a daughter because it is such a grand occasion; after that, they save for her dowry. I can certainly believe that after what I saw... This was the sign outside her village welcoming the whole community to the event. This particular girl goes to the Marshall School, hence the reason we were invited to attend.
The rest of these pictures were taken in a communal area outside her house where we greeted her and offered a blessing to her by sprinkling rice on her head...
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| Professional photographers are on hand to take pictures. |
Then came that dreaded time for us to say goodbye...it never gets any easier!! I'm sitting here crying now just thinking about how emotional that time is for both sides. As their tiny arms wrap around us with such strength, clinging on to you until you have to release them to move on to the next child, is a feeling like no other that I can describe. The only relief I can get is knowing that they are in good hands, and that the people who care for them on a daily basis love them like their own. What a gift the Joyful Journeys Hostel is to these children who come from lives filled with such brokenness and heartache. May God grant us all comfort and bring peace to our hearts as we move back into our daily routines, clinging to the memories and friendships we have made.
Then it was time to say our "see ya laters" to our Indian family that has cared for us with such love and kindness throughout our trip; we were truly blessed by their hospitality, and will definitely miss them all as well...especially Rajini's tea!! 😉
So what do you do when your heart aches with the pains of change...eat chocolate cake, of course!!
After approximately 36 hours of traveling, we made it back home!!
February 16th is India Sunday at Immanuel Church; join us at the 9:00am and/or 10:30am Worship Services as we share our experiences and shed light on how Joyful Journeys Ministries are impacting the village of Madhavapatnam and beyond. All are welcome! 💖
Watch for another post, as I still have more to say (I know, go figure), but for now it's time to rest!
Namaste'
~Jenny
